waterloo of deciphering when. talk about indecisiveness.
i remind myself from time to time that it's healthy pouring out one's anger, but still, i don't know the criteria. there's got to be an objective side however subjective anger and angst and mood are.
a friend said just be mad when you feel like and you know you should be. it means letting out of feelings to make that person feel how he/she made you feel. and in so doing, you give that person a favor. you've given him/her an opportunity to learn a new lesson.
