the
"love cannot be sustained by mutual dependence, rather, love between two parties is made stronger when they are completely independent of one anothe by Dr. S. Peck
and the SMS version:
"i want someone who can leave me, live w/o me and be strong enough without me.. but chooses not to"
seem to be true at times but it all depends on the context behind.
we all desire to feel needed, otherwise we wouldn't feel our worth. and it all gets complicated when we rethink it. that feeling of worthlessness is subjective.. (?) yeah.. but if you love someone, you should make that person feel her worth. otherwise, she'd think: "what for?"